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Thai Style - When less is more

John Galt's Probes the Naughty Night Life

If you are coming to Thailand to sample the naughty night live, you don't need any help to walk into a Go-go bar, spot a female, make contact, and be walking out the door with her.   Most girls in the Go-gos know the drill.   Quite a few of them have been around the block a few times and have seen their share of western clients.

They are not afraid of you.   Its very likely they speak more than enough English to make arrangements with you.  If you're a bit nervous or not completely familiar with the process, this could very well the be the right choice for you as most of these girls are very good at making you comfortable.

As far as hunting down the opportunity, this might seem very much like shooting fish in a barrel, accept in this case, the girl is more likely to have been the fisherman.

 
 

This is the front of the famous Nana Entertainment Complex AKA Nana Plaza

Typically, I prefer something a little more challenging.  I prefer something a little more illusive.   I tend to  seeking out the company of a girl who is new to the farang (white skinned foreigner) sex scene.  I prefer a girl with much less experience who doesn't know exactly what they are doing.  Someone not jaded and excited at the prospect of coupling up with me.

These girls are all over.   They are just one or two steps removed from the Go-go bars in many cases.  You might see them passing you on the street or working at the local 7-11.  They are nearly everywhere.

One of the hunting grounds that everyone here knows here is Nana Entertainment complex.   (both of these pictures show Nana).   Inside Nana you'll find beer bars in the center of the first floor and you'll find Go-go bar along the outside perimeter of the building on all three floors.

Its not inside here here we'll be fishing tonight.  We'll be just outside this area across the street in a small area just in front of the Nana Plaza hotel.

I'm going to tell you a true story just as it happened to me.

 

 This is also Nana Plaza taken from inside.

  

The Great Galt Scores!

As I said before, I like to typically seek out the more timid inexperienced girl.   These can be found across from this complex near this Nana hotel sign and in the parking lot of the Nana Plaza hotel.    

What I do I pick a hotel close to this area of town and then people watch in and around the Hotel parking lot.   And I may watch for an hours seeing just how things are playing out.   I look to see what girls are doing and how quickly they say yes to customers and just what kind of customer they are going with.   Those are big indicators to me about what the girls are like.

It was early, about 7 pm and sun had just set.  I spied this very lovely young girl looking narrowed waist babe.  She was a stunner.  Dressed nicely with light color skirt and top to match, pert small+ sized bust, and heals supporting these long and lovely legs.  Wonderful legs.  I can't show you a picture of the legs or you would be able to recognize her.  She was standing behind a car talking with 3 other friends.   I watched that group for about 45 minutes.  This girl I had my eye  and she was receiving a fair number of gentlemen callers.  It was a circus.  They were tripping all over each other left and right.   She was side stepping them and almost running away from them.  Clearly, those guys did not have the right approach.  They came on all wrong.  I could see this from a distance.  They thought they were in Amsterdam or something.

Later, I walked by that group by a few times just to see how they would respond.  Girls will typically present signals with eye contact.  If they are open to meeting with you they will look eyes with you or gesture towards you or just smile.  If a girl doesn't want you to walk over, she will typically look away from you and avoid eye contact altogether.  In Thailand, for girls, the eyes can become the invitation.

I was in luck.  Her and a couple of her friends looked my way with approval.  I slowly walked straight over to them.   At this point, you have to be careful you handle yourself.  You just can't lunge over and grab her arm and say "Hey baby let's go".  That may work inside a Gogo bar but it's not the more gentle more respectful Thai Style approach. 

I do speak some Thai and so this helps a great deal particularly with this type of girl who speaks almost no English.  Ok, so I find out her name.  We'll call her Tu.  She is 24.  Tu tells me a little about her family and that she has a small child. (this can be a fairly common situation)  In the course of discussion I learn that she works nearby as a drink server a open air restaurant/bar.   Her mother and the father have no idea she is venturing into naughty nightlife activities.   We have one show stopper, she has to leave to go home at 10pm.  Oh damn.  Hum.... 

She was still skittish around me.   I could tell things were not going to move quickly enough to beat her time frame so I did something a little unusual.  I decided to take her to a movie that evening.    I think she found it easy to agree to go.  We had a normal date and I brought her back to her friends.  That night was pretty well spent (for her at least).   I handed her a 1,000 baht note, I don't know if she expected it but my gift sat very well with her.

The payoff on that little expedition didn't occur until the next night.  I returned to the same area at nearly the same time and there she was again.   I could tell she was happy to see me.  At that point I could see clearly that the door was immediately open.  I her asked back to my hotel and without any delay she went with me and we had a very nice exchange.  In this case, the movie date and the cash gift was enough to win her approval the night before.  I've been back to see her one more time since then about 5 weeks later, and again, she was very hot in bed with me.

People talk about having the "Girl Friend" experience.  You can call it that if you like, but I think of it as more of a special friendship.  And you can make friendships.  If you take the time to treat people nicely and give them a little respect, you'll have very pleasant interactions with the these girls.

Galt's Show and Tell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I want to make a very strong point.   I think it's very important to treat the girls with respect.   There is never a good reason to be mean to them.  There is never a good reason to hurt them or be disparaging to them.  Yes, sometimes you need to be firm with them and keep things under your control, but never disrespect them just for fun.  What they do is sometimes difficult for them.  Many would leave that business in heartbeat for a chance for a better life and sometimes they do get that opportunity.

 

Thai Style

Don't : Kiss the girls in public

Don't : Walk hand in hand with a girl unless unless she takes your hand first.

Don't : Raise your voice in anger

Don't : Be cheap about money below your practical ability to pay

 

Do : Look for the fun side of a situation and smile with it.

Do : Look for ways to avoid trouble (leaving a situation that may getting out of hand, etc)

Do : Respond to a girl's unspoken needs.  (Does she have an apparent need?  Take care of it if practical.)

Do : Consider her friends as family.  (Any positive gestures extended to them reflect well on her)

Do : Take your time and enjoy the moment.

Do : Conjure up a surprise gift if an opportunity presents itself. (you'd be surprised how much favor I win with gourmet cookies)

Do : Have sex with her with a western approach.  Women in Thailand rarely receive best efforts from Thai males.  Western lovers are more keen on giving, and of course that kind of behavior is appreciated here (LOL - So this is not exactly Thai Style). 

Do : Be a generous to her as you feel she deserves.  When in doubt err on the side of generosity. (but don't be wimp either.  You are in charge of the giving.)

 

This is my first weekly column dedicated solely to the naught night life.  Please don't believe me just because I say it's so.  Ask around.   Sometimes I hardly believe it myself.   You just have to be here yourself to take it all in.

Thanks for stopping by.  Please come see us again next week.

Your Bangkok commentator,

Your Thailand Naught Night Life Connoisseur,

John Galt

 

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